Ok so i tried all i could think of , then i looked at my previous bans on this site and see that old server was set up on server IP address not IP address + admin port which is how i did new server. So I guess this is my mistake. I have deleted server and added again on new IP address not with admin port number. Please approve so I can see if that is what was wrong.
Thanks.
UPDATE - server streaming now , so if stays alive then problem solved and a lesson learnt (i hope grrr my old brain!)