Remote location is the other than my Ip. My Ip to the game server is 74.63.54.119:1716... The Apache remote location is http://74.63.54.119:9000. So my guess would be the web addy for the apache remote location along with that Ip? Like this:
http://control.artofwarcentral.com/Templates/Default/service_home.aspx?serviceid=TC35510516510543552643575&svc_short_desc=Apache+12+Slots&back=%2fTemplates%2fDefault%2fservices.aspx
Sorry but still new to this :)