When you are the accounts manager here, then you can tell us how we should be doing things here. Surfy followed the PBBans account management SOP to the letter, she did nothing wrong. Standard procedure is to deny and lock the application - and then allow the applicant to create a thread to discuss it if needs be.
It is neither intrusive, nor does it create lag. I believe you are severely mis-informed.
If you are only coming here to get streaming so you can run AiX - then you need to reconsider your actions here. I would rather have 10 people streaming who did it because they support what streaming is and anti-cheat in general, than 1000 who do it "because they have to".
I appreciate it is frustrating having your application denied, but you seriously need to evaluate both your reasons for being here, and how you are approaching the situation.
I and the rest of the staff are happy to discuss this to reach a conclusion - but if it is met by posts exclaiming how we are "doing it wrong" - you will not get anywhere... and the chances are you will be met with a less than friendly reception from the site membership, not just the administrators.